He was/is never wrong - he will talk to the kids for hours to convince them and warp their minds into thinking that someone, anyone, else was wrong - including them - but not him - he just can't be wrong.
His behavior was my fault - "see what you caused" "see what you made me do" - I'm sure he has convinced the kids that the divorce and this last breakup are all my fault. He was/is never responsible for his own behavior - the unpleasant aspects of his life was/are always in response to someone else - he would never take responsibility or be accountable to someone else
He always had/has to have his way - if he didn't want to do something, he wouldn't and he is very proud of this - of being in control of his destiny/his time/what a warrior. If I wanted to be with him, I'd have to do what he wanted - sit there in front of the tv and watch him channel surf, go to the bars and watch him drink, go to the restaurants he wanted to go to - that gets old fast ... An aspect of this is his living vicariously through our children. He is living his dreams and goals in our son; he has made our son a CEO of a corporation of his making with his ideas and his dreams/goals.
He never apologies to anyone - see above - his hubris, boorishness
I don't want our son to be like him - oh, if only the kids would get some insight and independent thoughts of their own and not be so influenced by his money, his trips, his title granting shenanigans
I guess I don't have much respect for him after all
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